How humdrum is the argument from Black men reprimanding Black women that their experience — not emprical data or research, but real life lived experience is somehow incorrect.
At the close of the day and my effort in responding to your largely anecdotal and uninformed comment, hundreds of Black women align themselves with my article and those are merely the hundreds that have stumbled upon it. The true and personal experiences of a Black woman such as those I describe may always seem foreign (or resentful and churlish as you note) to you, Jeff from the North that now lives in the South.
You’re within your first amendment right for sure and you’re also within too small of a mind frame and lived experience to truly understand.